tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5233529.post111846708599354146..comments2023-03-22T08:01:18.998-07:00Comments on Do you have that in my size???: In which our heroine drinks some wine and becomes maudlinDenisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00554222495613649397noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5233529.post-1118593001430321922005-06-12T09:16:00.000-07:002005-06-12T09:16:00.000-07:00I tend to prefer the type of guy you are dating, a...I tend to prefer the type of guy you are dating, actually. They make me feel more secure because they aren't pressing too hard, but aren't disappearing entirely. I like passion, but I prefer to see it come out when we are together physically, and not in the whole "calling me every day, asking me when we can go out again before the current date is even over" scenario. <BR/><BR/>Although I prefer the strong, silent type I'm constantly dating the overly enthusiastic type. I don't fault those guys at all, but since it is kind of a turn off for me, it's kind of frustrating! <BR/><BR/>As for your hairdresser, if you like what he does with your hair, why not stick with it? Do you think he might be gay? In that case, he might just be "acting fabulous" as my gay friends call it -- gay men tend to feel comfortable around women who seem approachable and who dress very well, as I know you do. That will sometimes translate into suggestive compliments.<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, I've never had a male hairdresser, and the only beauticians I know are women, but they say that the first thing you learn is that you shouldn't flirt with customers, even if you want something to happen, because it makes people uncomfortable, even when they are interested. The issue is the whole customer/vendor situation, where you don't want to have the person you are buying a service from cross a line. So, if he's straight and he follows this "unwritten rule," he must really want you to notice him in order to break it.<BR/><BR/>Also, from what I have gathered (even though I can't seem to personally follow this credo), it's OK to date anyone you want until you explicity discuss an exclusive relationship, physical relationship or no.<BR/><BR/>But that never works for me -- I can only seem to concentrate on one guy at a time. It's so lame, I know -- but, there it is.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5233529.post-1118520459107636252005-06-11T13:07:00.000-07:002005-06-11T13:07:00.000-07:00He sounds nice! Home on a Friday night AND he wrot...He sounds nice! Home on a Friday night AND he wrote you an email... ok, it would have been better had he been so consumed by passion that he'd come knocking on your door, but dramatics aside I'd say STOP WORRYING SO MUCH!Aldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06888288487866673052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5233529.post-1118469781839154232005-06-10T23:03:00.000-07:002005-06-10T23:03:00.000-07:00nice and normal is not too much to ask. you'd thi...nice and normal is not too much to ask. you'd think it would be easy to fulfill those requirments but, not so much sometimes. i second that question. <BR/><BR/>hope you didn't drink it all...hehe ;)brenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07920379694004002185noreply@blogger.com